ʻO nā ʻīlio Pono e kūʻai aku i kāu keiki?

Nā ʻikepili i loko

Ke kūʻai nei i nā mea pāʻani no kāu mau keiki, pono ʻoe e pale mau ke kūʻai aku i nā mea pāʻani e pili ana i ke kaʻina hana. I kekahi mau hihia, makemake nā ʻohana o ke ʻohana e kūʻai i nā ʻano o nā mea pāʻani a lākou e makemake ai. Palau hewa ʻole kēia kūlana a he ʻano he ʻano ia e hoʻopilikia i ke kaʻina hana o ke keiki. Pono i nā pākeke ke neʻe pololei i nā keiki, ʻaʻole naʻe no lākou iho. ʻO ka mea nui loa, i ke koho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, pono e hoʻāʻo ʻia e hoʻohana ʻia nā lāʻau kūleʻa a i ʻole. Pono ʻoe e ʻike i nā hopena e pili ana i nā mea āpau āu e kūʻai ai ma ke kumukūʻai i loaʻa ai ka hopena o ke olakino o kāu keiki. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, ua hana ʻia mai nā mea maikaʻi ʻole ma lalo o nā anuʻu toys ua hoʻoweliweli maoli kēlā i ke kūkulu ʻia o nā keiki a me ke olakino. Pono ʻike ka poʻe pākeke i kā lākou keiki a loaʻa ka pāʻani maikaʻi maikaʻi e like me kā lākou makemake. Ma keʻano kūikawā, pono ʻoe e pale i nā mea pāʻani me nā lako ʻāpana liʻiliʻi i kūʻai nui ʻia ma ka mākeke. I ka wā e kūʻai ai i kēia mau mea pāʻani, hiki i kāu keiki ke weliweli a ʻokiʻoki i nā ʻāpana liʻiliʻi. Aia iā ʻoe e hoʻoponopono i ka hoihoi a me ka mākaukau o kāu keiki a kuhikuhi iā lākou i nā lālā like ʻole. Hiki i kekahi ke hoʻāʻo e hoʻolōʻihi i kāu keiki ma ka hoʻopiha ʻana iā ia ma o ka lawe ʻana i ka pālani. Eia nō naʻe, i ke ʻimi ʻana e ʻoliʻoli iā ʻoe, pono ʻoe e makaʻala ʻaʻole i komo i kāu keiki i loko o kahi ola kahi e hakakā ai ʻo ia me nā pilikia olakino. Ma ke ʻano maoli, makemake nui ke keiki i nā pāʻani āpau a leʻaleʻa ia. ʻO ka lawe ʻana i nā pāʻani āpau a kāu keiki ke makemake ai nā pilikia like ʻole. Pono ʻoe e hōʻoia mau i ka ʻaʻa āu e kūʻai ai aia i kahi kūlana paʻa a kiʻekiʻe hoʻi. Ma kahi o ke kūʻai ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, he nui loa ke koho e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani e hana wale ai. No ka mea ua hoʻonāukiuki nā keiki i kā lākou mau pāʻani i ka manawa pōkole loa. No laila, poina nā mea pāʻani āpau a nalo loa i ka wā o ka manawa. ʻO ke kīʻaha āu e loaʻa ai no kāu keiki pono mau o ke ʻano e hoʻomohala i kāu noʻonoʻo a lilo ʻoe i mea ikaika i ka wā e hiki mai ana.

ʻAuhea e kūʻai aku i nā pāʻani kiʻi o nā keiki?

Ke noʻonoʻo nei ʻoe e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani i kāu keiki, pono ʻoe e koho i nā mea pāʻani i ʻike ʻia e kou mau maka. Ua hilinaʻi ʻoe a ʻike ʻaʻole ʻaʻohe pilikia kūpono nā pāʻani pāʻani keiki Ua hiki e ia. ʻO nā pāʻani e hiki ke loaʻa mai nā pūnaewele like ʻole āu e hilinaʻi ʻole ma ka pūnaewele e hiki ai i nā pilikia olakino. Aia nā ʻenehana ʻoihana like ʻole e hāʻawi i nāʻokoʻa nui i nā pāʻani a hāʻawi i nā lawelawe maikaʻi. Maanei hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi i nā mea pāʻani maikaʻi loa no kāu mau keiki.